...You Just Know
Six (6) months into our relationship, we realized we wanted to be together for life. Marriage was inevitable. We did what any two should do when they are living together, and are truly in love...we went and got married. Just the two of us, the judge and God.
Fast forward (almost) 9 months later, we are still very young in marriage, but old in love. We learn something new about each other everyday, and we enjoy it. Marriage is work, but it is all so fun and exciting. We don't consider it work though...it's a lifestyle.
Marriage presents freedom - a freedom that we never knew before. I mean, you might think being single is freedom (it has its perks if you choose that lifestyle), but not like marriage. When married, you can freely talk about sex with your guy or gal, why? Because you're married! You don't feel bad about what you're doing, after you've done it, why? Because it is YOUR right as a married couple to love each other and love on each other. ((The marriage bed is undefiled)) You can go out on dates, talk for hours about anything, etc. We make each other laugh with our silliness, and that's something that neither of us ever had in totality. We are free to be our goofy, weird, uncensored, nonsensical selves -- and it is okay.
In all the time that we have known each other, we have only dated for a short time during high school. When we met, we talked for hours, exchanged numbers, and later talked for hours on the phone. There was never a moment we talked about whether we wanted to date or not. We just were. This time around - we just knew. You might even say we have always known.
Your conversations are stimulating, and it seems like you've known each other forever. Almost like you met before, in another time. Even in the worst of times, you can't help what's real. Love. It doesn't take months or years to "try and figure out" if someone is for you. You know in an instant (day), and all you need is the rest of your time growing in love for one another.
The point is: when it's real, you just know.
Fast forward (almost) 9 months later, we are still very young in marriage, but old in love. We learn something new about each other everyday, and we enjoy it. Marriage is work, but it is all so fun and exciting. We don't consider it work though...it's a lifestyle.
Marriage presents freedom - a freedom that we never knew before. I mean, you might think being single is freedom (it has its perks if you choose that lifestyle), but not like marriage. When married, you can freely talk about sex with your guy or gal, why? Because you're married! You don't feel bad about what you're doing, after you've done it, why? Because it is YOUR right as a married couple to love each other and love on each other. ((The marriage bed is undefiled)) You can go out on dates, talk for hours about anything, etc. We make each other laugh with our silliness, and that's something that neither of us ever had in totality. We are free to be our goofy, weird, uncensored, nonsensical selves -- and it is okay.
In all the time that we have known each other, we have only dated for a short time during high school. When we met, we talked for hours, exchanged numbers, and later talked for hours on the phone. There was never a moment we talked about whether we wanted to date or not. We just were. This time around - we just knew. You might even say we have always known.
Your conversations are stimulating, and it seems like you've known each other forever. Almost like you met before, in another time. Even in the worst of times, you can't help what's real. Love. It doesn't take months or years to "try and figure out" if someone is for you. You know in an instant (day), and all you need is the rest of your time growing in love for one another.
The point is: when it's real, you just know.
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